The book "unChristian" not only details how outsiders view church and Christianity, but gives ideas to help in changing the perspectives of outsiders. Here's some of the ideas...
*Connect with people. It's about relationships. The outsiders needed to be treated as friends.
*Be creative. New ways of telling the Gospel. Outsiders are begging for creative expressions of the Gospel.
*Serve people. It's more than just learning about the faith, it's living it. Serve!!
*A lifestyle of compassion. It the ability to empathize with others. Get into their shoes.
Of course there's more detail in the book. That's why I recommend you get a copy!
May we who claim the name of Christ, make a difference in changing the negative perceptions of outsiders.
These are the days my friend,
Jim "Train"